Singleness is simply being comfortable with who the divine created us to be. It's a time in life where one begins to discover individuality. Breaking away from the voices of Dad, Mom, grandma, etc. who fashioned and molded us into an image based on their traditions. So as we grow, our parents are the first teachers and we operate through learned behavior. That worked for us back then, to give structure or dysfunction, because they were all we had. But when we begin to seek for something more liberating as adults, then it's time to break the barriers built in our lives by them and go on to live life through our own desires. Not to strip the foundation of biblical principles and morals. No! Not at all, but to build our own life of singleness based upon truth. Even if that wasn't the foundation, began to discover it, NOW! We have the freedom of being, to find out what true love and life is all about. Discover the beauty of living in unity with self: spirit, mind, body and soul.

A Place of Peace in Being Single!

It took me some time to get here! I MADE IT! Spiritual priority is vital. The past few weeks have been a crossroad for me dealing with family deaths and serious issues. I am single again, but it wasn't easy to getting to the point of peace in this area. I've been through so many heartaches, heartbreaks in relationships and a failed marriage with children involved that I almost lost myself completely. BUT God! When I couldn't trace Him, I had to trust Him in all His infinite wisdom, because I was in the dark with no solution of my own. Years and years of pain and finally something happened. I just got SICK AND TIRED OF BEING SICK AND TIRED! I realized that I cannot change the past, It's dead like some of my relatives that made their transition...there is no way I can bring them back. So I must bury my past never to dig up the dirt again. I'm finally experiencing peace...OM Shante!