Ladies, what do you do when you are dating and you come to crossroad? Meaning, your goal is marriage, and he's not ready or not sure if he will ever be ready. Now you're open with each other, enjoy getting to know one another, he's a wonderful man who treats you like a queen. What do you do? You're in love and now it's the moment of truth. So, with his uncertainty, he still wants to continue seeing you. He desires to see more of you.
Does this seem like he wants to have his cake the way he wants it and eat it too with no commitment? Do you allow your heart to take precedence over the reality that he may never decide to marry you? Do you give him more of what he ask hoping he will change his mind? This is where many women make a mistake. They continue seeing the one they love, hoping that they can change him. This is where you must take charge of your life! Love yourself enough to end it realizing you deserve better than what he is willing to offer. Let go and let the Most High work it out. Is it easy? Of course not, but it will save you the struggle of working to convince him that you're worth it.
Again! End it! Take some time to heal from the hurt by doing things you enjoy. It wouldn't hurt to give a little more time in accomplishing your goals. Take your time. Never lower your standards. What you lose is because something better is awaiting. Give yourself to the one who desires to be with you because he just does, and is willing to do whatever to have you as his own.
